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Some thoughts about living in the country

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Here are just a few thoughts I've had over the last couple of weeks living in the country:
I really like it, even though I'm not country-folk toughI really like it, even if it means I have to leave the house bang on 7.40 to get to work at 8.30If I am even just 5 mins later than that, the 45 minute commute, turns into an hour + (I shit you not)Poringland is the Hotel California of Norfolk villages. You can drive through, but you can never leave. I didn't leave quick enough one morning, I sat for half an hour creeping through this small villagePlumbers are popular men around here. The soonest I could get a plumber was four weeks from my call, i.e. middle of NovemberI ended up calling a large company to sort out the boiler issue and my Norwich plumber for the rest People are really friendly, everyone really does know everyone elseIt's kind of weird, kind of comfortingI've seen a lot of wildlife since being here:
Dave noticed this little guy munching his way through the h…

Moving on up!

It is done. I have moved. Or rather, it would be more true to say, I have been moved. Frankly, from here on in, that's the only way I'm going to move, unless everything fits into the back of my car. The most stressful thing about the entire experience of moving, was waiting for the removal men. 

I got most of my boxes unpacked the weekend after the move. It has very quickly gone from The Cottage to feeling like home. The rooms are large and airy, with all our things in them, it's so comfy and cosy. I love opening the curtains in the morning. I never know what I'll see. Granted on the days I work in Norwich, I don't see very much at all because it's dark. But this morning there were two hen pheasants perched on my fence looking a bit disgruntled at my interrupting their chat. 

Living out in the Sticks, there's a lot to get used to. The nearest shop is over a mile away. I will have to go even further afield for my larger weekly shops. I've been told there i…

Existential Angst/Mid-life Crisis

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Yes, it's true. I am having a mid-life crisis. I have come to hard realisation of two important things:


1. Life is Meaningless. We are born, we are taxed and then we die. Therefore, the only meaning in Life is that which we create. and 2. While I every major thing I have every wanted has been denied to me, I have actually had a pretty awesome time considering.
These two truths along with some other things, have meant that since August I've been wrestling with both the Big and the Little Pictures.

The flat where I thought I'd die in, over the last 8 weeks became my prison. I hate being here, I can't abide being in Norwich anymore. I've lived here since 1996. In fact, I'm moving out pretty much 18 years to the day. I am having a Don McLean moment.

This midlife crises leaves no relationship, no belief or activity unquestioned. This process hasn't even come close to finishing yet. I'd go so far as to say, I've only just begun.

Tomorrow, I move. I am being pack…